A: If you’re just beginning and you’re looking for your first ever clit stimulator, it’s best to start with something small such as a bullet vibrator or a finger vibrator. We know as a beginner you may be overwhelmed, so investing in something small will properly ease you into sex toy play and help you understand what feels good for you.

A: Yes, there is actually quite a diverse variety of toys that have been created specifically for clitoral stimulation. Each clit is unique and different sensations will feel good for different people. So, it’s fun to experiment and find what type of clit stimulation feels best for you. Just to list a few toys that focus on clit stimulation, we’ve got: bullet vibrators, wand vibrators, finger vibrators, clit sucking toys and rabbit vibrators.

A: Our complete guide, How to Clean Sex Toys, has a video as well as a quick overview on how to clean your vibrator! Something important to remember is if your toy has batteries, you need to remove them before cleaning your toy. Once that’s all set, just make sure to wash areas of the sex toy that are insertable or that make contact with your body with adult toy cleaner and warm water.

A: Here at TooTimid we always recommended using lubricant during any sexual act. Water based lube is the most popular and would work well with most sex toys. However, if you’re looking to explore with anal play, silicone lubricant is the best option.

A: All of our BDSM gear has been handled, quality-tested, and approved for sale by our experts. We have Restraints and Cuffs, Blindfolds, Whips and Paddles, Ball Gags, Spreader Bars, Nipple Clamps, Sex Swings, and even more!

A: Yes, very discreet. All orders are shipped in plain packages. There is no indication on the outside of package to what is inside. We keep all our customer records confidential. We never sell our customer list.

Typical delivery is a fast 3-5 days. We do offer Overnight and 2-Day Delivery Shipping options for customers who need their order ASAP. Our team works hard to get your order shipped as fast as possible. Most orders ship the same day you place your order.

If you receive a defective item, you will NOT need to send it back to us.  Within 30 days, contact our customer service department via email or phone.  Let us know what the issue is and we will happily send you a replacement free of charge.  Yes, it really will be that easy.  

If you receive your order and are simply not satisfied with the product, you may contact us within 30 days to exchange it for another item. Since all returns are disposed of, we are not able to issue any refunds.